Ebook How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You by Leil Lowndes

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"I don't get it.. I'm attractive, smart, sensitive, accomplished. Why doesn't he or she flip for me? Why can't I find love?" How many times have you beat your fists on the pillow asking yourself this question? You open this book skeptically, yet harboring hope, for the solution. You read the title: How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You.

"That's a mighty big promise," you say. Indeed, it is. But the promise of this book is yours if you are willing to follow a scientifically sound plan to capture the heart of a Potential Love Partner. Why, when history is strewn with broken hearts, do we now claim the means to make someone fall in love with us? Because, after centuries of resistance, science is finally unraveling what romantic love actually is, what triggers it, what kills it, and what makes it last. Just as ancient tribesmen saw an eclipse and thought it was black magic, we looked at love and thought it was enchantment. Sometimes, especially during those first blissful moments when we want to stop strangers on the street and cry out, "I'm in love!" it may feel like enchantment, but, as we enter the 21st century, we are discovering that love is a definable and calculable blend of chemistry, biology, and
psychology. (And, well, maybe a little black magic thrown in.) As science sets sail in previously unknown seas, we are at last beginning to understand the rudiments of that "most insane, most delusive, and most transient of passions," as George Bernard Shaw described love. And what makes people want to stay in that "excited, abnormal, and exhausting condition continuously until death do them part"? The question, and the quandary, of ''Precisely what is love?" is not new. It is one that has been given serious consideration throughout the ages by
cerebral heavyweights like Plato, Sigmund Freud, and Charlie Brown. In the darkened Broadway theater in 1950, the audiences of South Pacific were in total harmony with Ezio Pinza when he pondered, "Who can explain it? Who can tell you why? Fools give you reasons. Wise men never try." Well, recently, many wise men and womenhave tried, and succeeded. Don't blame Rodgers and Hammerstein. When they were composing romantic musicals, the scientific community was as perplexed about love as Nellie and Emile de Becque singing their bewilderment about some enchanted evening.

1 Anyone? Yes, Practically Anyone

    Science "Discovers" Sex
    How More Research Was Compiled
    How the Techniques Were Developed
    How I Tested the Techniques

2 What Makes People Fall in Love?
The Six Elements

    I. First Impressions
    II. Similar Character, Complementary Needs
    III. Equity
    IV. Ego
    V. Early-Date Gender-Menders
    VI. Rx for Sex

3 The Physical Side of Falling in Love

    "Why Do My Insides Go All Funny?"
    "Does Somebody Have to Be Pea-Brained to Fall in Love with Me?"
    "Why Do We Fall in Love with One Person and Not Another?"
    "How Can These Little Things Start Love?"

4 Where Are All the Good Men and Women?
Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places

5 Does Love at First Sight Exist?

Part One: First Impressions You Never Get a Second Chance at Love at First Sight

6 How to Make a Dynamite First Impression

    First Impressions Last Forever
    Be Ready for Love—Always!
    Stay Psychologically "Fit to Kill"

7 How to Ignite Love at First Sight

    How Much Eye Contact Does It Take to Imitate
    How to Get Sexy "Bedroom Eyes"
    How to Awaken Primal, Unsettling, Sexy Feelings in Your Quarry
    Naughty Eyes Are So Nice

8 Your First Approach

    The Gentle Art of Pickup (Not for Men Only)
    Hunters, Make the First Move . . . Fast
    Huntresses, Make the Fast Move . . . First
    First Moves That Work for Women

9 Your First Body Language

    Let Your Body Do the Talking
    When You Are Quarry
    The Word That Can Save Your Relationship
    "But This Is So Basic!"

10 Your First Conversation

    Conversation Is Making Beautiful Music Together
    Conversation Is Like Making Love
    Conversation Is Like Selling
    How to Know What Topics Turn Your Quarry On
    How to Fool Your Quarry into Thinking You Two Are Already in Love
    Get Even Closer by Giving the Gift of Intimacy
    Make Your Lifestyle "Fit" Your Quarry's Lovemap

11 Your First Date

    The Game Begins in Earnest
    "How Soon Should I Make My Move?"
    "Playing Hard to Get—Should I, or Shouldn't I?"
    The Scientifically Proved Best First Date
    Give Your Quarry First-Date Butterflies
    Plant the Seeds of Similarity
    First-Date Restaurant Smarts Hunters, Some Spit and Polish for Your P's and Q's Huntresses, Forgive His Foibles
    First-Date Duds "I Haven't Got a Thing to Wear"

Part Two: Similar Character, Complementary Needs I
Want a Lover Just Like Dear Old Me (Well, Almost)!

12 "It's You and Me, Baby, Alone Against This Mad, Mad World"
Similarity . . . and a Touch of Difference (Just a Touch)

13 How to Establish Subconscious Similarity

    How to Instantly Make Your Quarry Feel, "Why, We're Just Alike!" Words to Give Your Quarry "That Family Feeling"

"We Even Speak the Same (Body) Language"

14 How to Establish Conscious Similarity

    The Three Crucial Conscious Similarities
    Let's Talk About Our Relationship—Not!

15 How to Establish Complementary Needs
"I Got Just What You Need, Baby"

Part Three: Ego How Do You Love Me? Let Me Countthe Ways

16 The World Revolves Around You, My Quarry
Ego Massage Is a Highly Skilled Craft

17 Step One: Silent Praise
Let Your Body Do the Praising

18 Step Two: Empathy
"I Can Identify with That!"
Lovers Share Intimate Details
Lovers Have Private Jokes

19 Step Three: Admiration
"Oh Honey, You Did an Absolutely Superb Job Slicing These Mushrooms"

20 Step Four: The Implied Compliment
"You're Much Too Young to Remember This, But . . ."
The Bull's-Eye Booster: "I Just Love What You Like About Yourself"

21 Step Five: The Big Guns

    "You Are the Most Fascinating Person I've Ever Met"
    "What Does Giving a Killer Compliment Do for Me?"

22 Fine-Tuning the Ego Machine

    "Wait a Minute. Does Everybody Like Compliments?"
    Knee-Jerk Praise: "What You Just Did Was Fabulous"
    Have the First Laugh
    Lovers Give Each Other Pet Names
    When Your Quarry Praises You


23 Keeping the Love Coals Warm

"I Love the Way You Wrinkle Your Nose When You Laugh"

Part Four: Equity The WIIFM Principle of Love (What's in It for Me?)

24 Everybody's Got a Market Value, Baby

    Why Is Finding Love Like Horse Trading?
    What Currency "Buys" a Good Partner?

25 How Can I Use the Equity Principle to Find Love?

    You Really Don't Want to Marry the Handsome Prince or the Beautiful Princess
    "Why Don't I Want to Marry Up?
    "What Happens if Inequity Strikes After We're Married?"

26 How Important Are Looks?

    What Type of Looks Do Women Like?
    What Type of Looks Do Men Like?
    "How Can I Make My Quarry Think I'm Better Looking?"
    How to Beef Up Your Odds on Making the Kill

27 Pursuing Rich and Famous Prey

    The Look of Money
    The Sound of Class
    What Does the U Crowd Talk About?
    Use Status Words with Status Prey

28 Upping Your Ante in Other Assets
Knowledge, Social Graces, and Inner Beauty Are Tangible Assets

29 Help Them Convince Themselves That They Love You

    Let Your Quarry Do Favors for You
    Hey! What About "O Lyric Love, Half Angel and Half Bird"?

Part Five: Early-Date Gender-Menders Is There Love After Eden?
30 " I Hope He or She's Not a Jerk Like All the Others"
"I Want a Man I Can Talk to, a Woman Who Thinks Like a Man"

31 What Is "Man Talk" and What Is "Woman Talk"? (Does It Exist?)
32 "How Do You Feel About That?"

33 "Excuse Me, Could You Tell Me Where . . ."


34 "Please, Spare Me the Details"

35 "Tell Me (Don't Tell Me) About It"

36 "What's the Best Way to Get from Point A to Point B?"

"A Straight Line!" He Declares; "A Gentle Curve?" She Asks

37 "Could You Give Me a Hand with This?"

38 Little Words to Win Your Quarry's Heart

39 Are There Dangerous Waters Ahead in the Gender Gap?

Part Six: Rx For Sex How to Turn On the Sexual Electricity

40 Your Quarry's Hottest Erogenous Zone

41 No Two Sexualities Are Alike, as No Two Snowflakes Are Alike

    How Do Men's and Women's Sexual Desires Differ?
    Why Are Men's and Women's Fantasies So Different?
    Yet More Differences
    How to Use Differences to Make Your Quarry Fall in Love with You
    How to Use Differences to Make Your Quarry Fall in Love with You


42 Forget the Golden Rule Between the Sheets
Men in Lust, Women in Love

43 Hunters, Make Love to a Woman as a Woman Wants It

    The One-Hour Lesson That Will Change Your Life
    Another Crash Course in Steamy Sensuality for Men

44 Huntresses, Have Sex with a Man as a Man Wants It

    Let's Go to the Videotape
    Additional ''Coarse'' Materials for Your Raw Sex Curriculum

45 A Quiz: Who Loves More, Men or Women?

46 Your Quarry's Sexual Desires Are as Individual as a Thumbprint

    Sex Is Like a Steak
    The Number One Sexual Wish
    "Why Did He or She Lose Interest?"
    "Is This Woman Enough for Me Sexually for the Rest of My Life?"


47Huntresses, Become a Sexual Sleuth

    Let Your Quarry Know You're a Sexual Adventurer
    Let Your Quarry Know You're a Sexual Adventurer
    Uncover His Core Fantasies
    Make Your Quarry Feel Safe Sharing His Deepest Desires
    The Hot Purr Follow-Up
    Do All Men Have a Sexual Secret?
    Ask Knock-His-Socks-Off Details Questions
    Huntresses, Discover His Trigger Words
    Give Your Quarry Good Bed Rap

48 Hunters, Do These Techniques Work with Women?

    Peel Back Her Layers and Lay Bare Her Deeper Fantasies
    Love Her as She Needs to Be Loved
    Magic Words to Make Her Love You
    Huntresses, Relationship Trigger Words Work for You, Too

49 Finally, Snaring the Confirmed Bachelor
Why Do Jerrys Want Such Far-Out Sex?
A Walk on the Weird Side

50 On Looking at Other Women

51 The Final Stone Unturned

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